Responding Appropriately to a Child Making an Allegation of Abuse

  1. Stay calm.
  2. Listen carefully to what is said.
  3. Find an appropriate early opportunity to explain that it is likely that the information will need to be shared with others – do not promise to keep secrets.
  4. Tell the child that the matter will only be disclosed to those who need to know about it.
  5. Allow the child to continue at her/his own pace.
  6. Ask questions for clarification only, and at all times avoid asking questions that suggest a particular answer.
  7. Reassure the child that they have done the right thing in telling you.
  8. Tell them what you will do next, and with whom the information will be shared.
  9. Record in writing what was said, using the child’s own words as soon as possible – note the date, time, any names mentioned, to whom the information was given and ensure that the record is signed and dated.
  10. It is important to remember that the person who first encounters a case of alleged abuse is not responsible for deciding whether abuse has occurred.  That is a task for the professional child protection agencies, following a referral from the designated child protection person in the organisation.

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